You have set a New Years resolution that failed, you tried again and set a new goal and lost momentum, WHY?
Have you ever went ahead and set a goal for yourself, starting out and feeling so committed. You knew this time was different. Then suddenly you are losing steam and unable to maintain your focus.
Being right is based on knowledge from the past, that could potentially even be outdated.
Being right comes from ego.
Being right has a certain level of rigidity
Experience can also get you feeling comfortable, stagnant or closed.
Now creativity and the ability to see a problem through is where the magic happens.
Take the perfect recipe of knowledge, creativity and curiosity …. And that is someone you want in your corner
The mind is engaged in the past, present and future of the problem - creating a very strong individual with limitless bounds.
Share your thoughts below
Look at what is in front of you. What idea have you started and not finished? What was the story you kept telling yourself as to why you did not follow through?
When we focus on problems, we focus on lack. What happens when we see lack?
- Self Criticism
- Give Up
- Don't follow through
Let's work on shifting that to solving the problem, changing the focus and taking action!
No More Excuses...
"They stole my idea"
"Noone is listening to me"
"I don't have time"
"I am not good enough"
Let's take a time when you got stuck, you were complaining and gave up.
1. Envision the moment and notice your feelings and thoughts.
2. Imagine yourself as an observer, looking over the room. A balcony above the room....
3. As an observer (not yourself) what do you notice?
4. What do you think you could have done different?
5. What was missing?
The purpose of this, is to see your situation from the outside and give yourself an opportunity to be unbiased.
Now as an observer imagine sharing this with You as a third party.
What comes up for you?
With this newfound knowledge, what is possible from here, the best possible outcome?
What do you need to make that happen?
What could you do to make it even better?
Who do you need to be to make this happen?
Share your thoughts and questions below ..
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Stay Tuned tomorrow for Day 4: Stop Looking for the Next Perfect Moment
If your focus is on doing things to fit in VS doing it to make a difference, think about how differently you are showing up.
We are so programmed and conditioned to tone it down and fit in. We are programmed to do it right, not the best.